One Year

The other night I unintentionally came across Chris's obituary from the Green Hills Funeral Home website. It was not something I was expecting to see. All at once everything that happened just slapped me in my face. I read the obituary and once again realized that yes, this tragic event did occur. After reading it, I saw a link for "condolences." I vaguely and very hazily remember reading through these last year as people were so generous to post them. But I was in such a state of shock that I didn't remember what beautiful words they contained. I began crying as I read them  realizing what a wonderful life my brother lead and the many lives he touched.   I think God wanted to remind me that what an amazing life my brother led in his short time on earth. One quote really sums it up: "Chris's life was short, but he lived it well."

On this day one year ago my precious brother lost his life and went to sit beside our heavenly father. I miss him more everyday. And the reality of him not being here sinks in more and more everyday. But on this anniversary I think it's important to remember the impact he made in his life. I went through the comments and selected some to share with you. Even after his death, Chris is impacting my life.  To me, Chris's attitude and zest for life are something to be envied, and I think he was the way he was because he really adhered to this passage: "Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself." -Matthew 6:34.  As you will see many of the commenters say, Chris was a laid back person that was able to make quick connections with others and live life one day at a time.

“I'll remember the slight smiles, the quiet assured voice, the laughs and most of all the joy he possessed for life” -Dick Frederick

“Chris's life was short, but he lived it well. We are lucky to have known him.” -Anne Messner

“I have never met a finer young man.” -Bruce Higdon

“He was just one of those people who was a joy to be around and always had a good time no matter what we were doing. Chris was one of a kind and I am lucky to have called him my friend.” -Elisa Savage

“He would have done anything to help a student and went out of his way to make it happen.” –Elizabeth Rooks

“I feel that Chris has been called home for a higher purpose, and as long as we remember him he will always be with us.” Sheila Larkin

“Students could walk into his office feeling like they couldn't make it and they would leave ready to take on the world.” -Stephanie Hunt

“He always had time, or would make the time, to listen and try to help everyone who reached out for help. When he did not have the answers a student needed, he made sure to stay with the student until he found someone who did.” -Stephanie Hunt

“I am an adjunct professor in theatre at CVCC. I would see Chris walking around on campus and he always had that quirky smile of his shining on his face. At this year's fall semester registration he told me how he was really working to get students to sign up for theatre classes here. I really appreciated that.” -Cheryl Palmour, CVCC

“Chris was my co-worker, having begun working at CVCC just a month or so before me. The fact that we were both new employees created a small bond between us. But Chris was so easy-going and pleasant, there didn't have to be a reason for bonds to be formed with him. They just happened.” –Debbie Boone

“He was a good advisor and he was always there when i need someone to talk too about my classes.” –Tara Weaver

“He never manifested anything other than cordialness, and was willing to go beyond expectation in helping others. Mr. Patterson was one of the many individuals who have helped me succeed in my endeavors at CVCC, and will definitely be missed and forever cherished.” -Torri Davis

“Chris was a wonderful advocate for students at CVCC. We worked together many times trying to help students overcome personal and academic problems. He was such a joy! I loved our chats in my computer lab and his sincere love for life was certainly contagious.” –Susan Young

“Mr. Patterson was a great guy all around with a big heart.” –Christina Nolin

“I remember the Christmas he drew my name for Secret Santa: after gushing over how impressed I was that he, a young bachelor, picked out the perfect gift (the cutest tree ornaments), he confessed with red cheeks and a sheepish smile that he had help (if memory serves, his mom or sister). That was Chris: adorable, thoughtful, sweet and honest.” –Kim Saadeh

“While I was a student at CVCC Chris helped me on numerous occasions. He also helped me out several times as a fellow co-worker, without question or hesitation. He was always calm and considerate of others. He was also able to identify with students no matter what their background was.” –Jennifer Lunsford

“Too few good people are on [the earth] today and unfortunately, I believe Mr. Patterson was one of those few. I will remember him as a friendly smile to be seen on the CV campus.” –Laci Walker

“If it was not for Chris I probably would not have got far as I have at CVCC. It seemed no matter how busy he was, he always had time to help me out. When I first came to CVCC he walked up to me and introduced himself and helped me register for classes, he was the first person that I really met at CVCC. He was always humble and always had something good to say, one of the nicest persons you would ever meet.” –Chris Redden

“Chris was one of the good guys. Solid. Dependable.” –Brad Wahl

“He was there for me during some difficult times and I am very grateful to have known him when I did.” –Christopher Marcum

“I can remember very clearly when I had just enrolled at CVCC as a full-time freshman in late 2003, I went to Chris for some Academic counseling, and after sitting in his office for a few minutes, my path was made clear with very excellent, professional, and friendly advice from Chris. I followed his recommendations, suggestions, and guidance and from then on, it was smooth sailing for me at CVCC, academically and otherwise. On many occasions, Chris and I, together with Daniel Kilcrest, would meet at around 6:00pm on Thursdays to Jam on our guitars in Wilson Hall and have fun. Music was always therapeutic for Chris. He had an ability to set one at ease and to make you realize that you don't have to stress and be overly concerned about life's obstacles but that everything will eventually level out and you will see your way through. He was the kind of person who could relate on any one's level and yet earn your respect by just his manner and the way he conducted himself.” –Herbie F. Jack

“I just want to let each and everyone that is reading this how much Mr. Patterson helped me to graduate CVCC. I had a lot of medical issues that was trying to stop me from succeeding and Mr. Patterson was there for me. He always had a positive word for me when ever he saw me. He made sure that my instructors was aware of my condition and was there to help me. I could go to him for any help that I needed. The world has lost a good man and I am honored to have meet him. God sent me this Guardian Angel and now he has called him home.” -Charlene Spencer

“Chris was one of my teachers at cvcc, he always had a smile and was always encouraging even when you felt like you couldn't go any futher.” –Melissa Boyd

“As I reflect on the five years that I've known Chris, the two things that play out in my mind the most are his smile/smirk (particularly when we were enjoying a bit of innocent nonsense) and the time he gave me some very sage advice. He once calmly advised me, "Shinene, you gotta just take things easy...just take it easy...don't let anything get to you." What words of wisdom!” –Shinene Currington

“We loved Chris so much because he reflected the attributes we aspired to own. We looked at him and we saw ourselves as we would like to be. We visited with him and recharged our own energy level. He empowered all of us, especially his students, to be better people.” –David Hodge

“went to Mr. Patterson for everything involving my education and he always did everything he could to help me stay on the right track. He wasn't even my assigned advisor but i knew i could always count on him.” –Jessica Bankston
“Eventhough I was assigned a differnt advisor, I would always knock on his door and ask him was he busy? He would smile, laugh and say "No Mrs. Elam, come on in." I know he was busy and he knew he wasn't my advisor, but he never turned me away.” –Eva Elam

“He made my years at CVCC great, because he would always offer words of encouragement, even if I didnt see things as positive as he did for myself. He was one of God's angels, and I thank his family for sharing him with each and every person that was touched by him.” -Keiandra Brundidge

“ Chris had an amazing gift to seemingly instantly bond with people; after a short time, I felt like I had known him all of my life.” –John Brewer

“Some people spread the gospil of the lord by preaching the words of God. But others just simple walk in his glory, this is somthing that Mr. Patterson did every day just living his life. When you see a good man , that man holds his head high with honor and glory.He never had to boast about his self because it spoke for itself. I know for a fact that Chris is in a far better place than this world.” –Traci Bridges

Chris's "slight smile" or "smirck." One of the things about him I miss most.

On your birthday...

Chris,

Today, you would have turned 33. Because birthdays are a time of celebration, I want to celebrate the life you had. As hard as it is, I will not make today a time of sorrow. Instead, I will make today and this post full of celebration because I know that is how you would want it.

To start the celebration, I have a couple of pictures that I think really show your true personality:







I love these pictures. When I look at them they help me remember what a funny and easy going guy you were. You always made me laugh. Sometimes just hearing your laugh would make me laugh. Your laugh was infectious that way. I don't think I will ever forget your laugh.

And let's not forget this picture:



Not only does it remind me of your fun-loving personality and creativity, but also of your love for Halloween costumes. Speaking of Halloween, your four legged man costume was one for the record books. Only you could create and pull off such a awesome creation. I think those 2 legs you made are still out in the garage somewhere. And you know you what those 2 legs remind me of? Your split machine. You were dead set on perfecting your karate skills (with Lauren and I often being your punching bag) and you thought the split machine would help with those karate kicks. But I think the best laugh we got out of the split machine was when Grandmama thought it was Lauren's headgear for her braces.

And these pictures will always be the most special to me:





They remind me of the fun times the three of us had together.



The photographer told us this was a candid shot. This picture reminds me of the phone call mom received a couple of weeks ago from a lady that had attended CVCC. She said she went with her daughter, who was enrolling at CVCC at the time, to meet with you to go over several things. While she was there, you asked her if she would like to enroll as a student and earn a degree like her daughter was doing. She had never really thought about that before, but you encouraged her and she enrolled. She graduated from CVCC and then went to Troy where she maintained a 4.0. She did all of that because of you...because you were an encourager. And this is just one story. Throughout your career you touched the lives of many, many students and a little part of you lives on in each of their life stories.

Chris, on your birthday, I'm reminded that you lived a life worth celebrating.

The Chris Patterson Outstanding Student Award

I have never felt as helpless in my life as I did standing in the ICU watching my brother's vitals drop slowly over the matter of an hour. There was nothing I could do to nurse him back to health. There was no sum of money I could have paid, no highly specialized medical team I could have sought out. For someone who feels like I have control over most aspects of my life, this situation just made me want to scream into eternity. I'm sure if I felt helpless there is no telling how my parents felt. As I reflect over that day in particular and those 3 weeks during which my brother was in the hospital, I realize that as much control I think I might have over everything in my life, God is ultimately who has the control. For reasons that I will never know or understand, November 27, 2009 was Chris' last day on earth.

There were several times over those 3 weeks in the hospital that the doctors saved Chris from death, and there was even a time that my family and his friends surrounded his bedside and literally cheered him onto higher vitals. But as I reflect, I think those moments where doctors and family attempted to revive Chris were a delay of God's ultimate plan.

I don't know why Chris' life on earth was so short but it's what I do know about Chris' life that makes the loss of him easier to handle. The more I think about him, his nature, the person he was and the lives he impacted the more I realize that Chris accomplished more in 32 years than some people have accomplished in 98.

My mom told me the other day that Chattahoochee Valley Community College, where Chris dedicated his life work to guiding students and giving them direction in obtaining their degrees, has created a new award to be given out at each graduation. The Chris Patterson Outstanding Student Award will be awarded for the first time in May. Chris' legacy continues to live on and I'm so proud of my big brother for all that he accomplished in his short life. This award in his memory is evidence of it. To think that 20 years from now I can attend a CVCC graduation and watch as someone accepts the Chris Patterson Outstanding Student Award with pride makes my heart smile.

A Million Little Pieces

I realize that it has been quite a while since I posted anything on here especially considering that I promised I would post special memories of Chris. But up until this point, I was just not ready. Every time I started writing a new post I would stop just short of posting. I apologize in advance for any grammatical or stylistic errors. I really wanted to write this but am in a rush as I am trying to study for last semester's finals.

I think the grieving started for me a little later than normal because I was trying to hold it together through everything. Before the visitation and funeral, my family and I wondered how we would ever have the strength to get through such a thing. After the visitation we all talked about how it wasn't as hard as we thought. It wasn't as hard as we thought because I know God was carrying us through all of that in the palm of his hand. He instilled us with extra strength so that we could give Chris the proper burial he deserved.

The first time I came to visit Chris I stayed for about 4 days or so (it's all really a blur). At some point my parents decided that he was doing better and it would be ok for me to leave to go back to school. So I did. I was in the middle of studying for finals so I kept my phone on vibrate while in the library. One night I forgot to take it off vibrate (I know you are probably thinking how I could forget in such a situation but my mind was in a million different places). The next morning I woke up at 9:30am finding several missed calls from my dad starting at 7:30. I braced myself as I called him back for the worst news possible. He said I better come to Columbus, that Chris was not doing well. I flew out of my apartment, flew down back country roads in rainy weather thankful that my brother was still here with us when I arrived, even though just barely. As I arrived into town my brother had survived a very high risk transfer to another hosptial. It was considered high risk even though the hospital was 3 blocks away. That is how unstable his condition was. Later that night, as we were sitting in the waiting room a nurse came down the hallway with a grim look on her face. All of this was like something out of a movie. Every time a nurse or doctor came down the hallway you braced yourself for the worst and the worst news is what she had: Chris was rapidly declining. And my sister was still in Ecuador. As my mom, dad and I walked down that hallway embracing each other before going into see Chris all I could think was that we would never all be together again. The last time we were all together was a little less than a year ago at Christmas. My favorite times and memories are of the 5 of us being together, just us, enjoying a good home cooked meal and some wine. And in that moment my heart broke into a thousand different pieces. More hurtful than the worst break-up, something you've never felt until you have experienced it. But my brother yet again gave me another speical gift...he hung on and survived that night and kept surviving until Lauren arrived...and he even held on some days after her arrival so that we could all have time together. And even though it wasnt our normal dinner table discussion and laughter, we were together as family. And on the night of Chris's passing as my mom, dad lauren and I surrounded Chris bedside holding his hands, singing to him and ppraying together, I felt like my family had never been so close before as we were in that moment. But i was so saddened that this was it, our last moments as the family we had always known. My heart remains in a million little pieces and I suppose that it will for a long time. But God sends my family and I messages that one by one help put the pieces back together. For much of this time my thoughts were consumed by the fact that we would never all be together again...until the other day when I had revelation: that was not the last time we will all be together again. We will one day all be in Heaven--in our real home--together enjoying a home cooked meal far better than any of us could ever imagine and lauging together into eternity. Chris just happens to be the first to get there.

Chris was always special to me. And as I got older he became an amazing friend to me as well as a brother. Since his passing, as I stated earlier, he has given me so many wonderful gifts. Most especially, he renewed and made stronger my relationship with Jesus. God has sent my family and I so many messages to let us know that Chris is there with him. Here are just a few:

In my room at my parents house I have a vanity table and on it there are several little poreclin figurines I have collected throughout my life, one being an white Angel that has very little box on the bottom that opens and closes. One day after Chris' passing I was sitting there geting ready to go somewhere and I stopped for a moment to think about everything. I looked at the angel, not remembering who had given it to me. I picked it up and opened the box. Inside was a tiny piece of torn off line ruled school paper. On the paper it said, "I love you, Aunt Hazel 1998." My dear sweet Aunt Hazel was my grandmother's sister and a godly woman. She had passed about 3 or so years before. Here, I had this angel for over 10 years and never once had I opened the little box. I know my Aunt Hazel is with Chris in Heaven and I felt like she was speaking out to me saying "I love you, he is here with me and everything will be ok."

On another occasion, right after the funeral something else happened. Around the time that my grandfather was very ill and soon before his death, my mother brought him a little plant (prob in 2006). She was there often with him so she took care of it and after his passing she brought it back to Troy. For four years she cared for this plant watering it and making sure it had proper sunglight, so she alwasy wondered why it would never bloom. She kept the plant in our big pantry (which has a window). Soon after Chris's passing she was in and out of the pantry and noticed to her surprise that the plant had finally bloomed. After four years there was finally a flower. That is the picture you see above. I think it is yet another sign from Heaven.

And lastly, the other night I had a very strange dream. I dreamt that Chris came back from Heaven. He did not talk much but he did tell us that he had come from Heaven although he couldn't tell us why. Most of the time he just say quietly and stared at us, but his gaze was very distant and he looked very unhappy to be with us. We tried asking him questions like what was God like and what was heaven like but he would not respond. The entire time he looked as if he wanted to return to where he had come from. After one day, he vanished. The next morning I woke up and vividly remembered this dream and was very disturbed by it. I reached to my daily devotional, as I normally do in the morning. Currently, I am using the Morning and Evening Edition of Grace for the Moment: Inspiration for each day of the year by Max Lucado (it's great, I highly recommend it). I was on schedule with the devoational so I turned to that mornings devotional and this is what it said:

"Made for Heaven"

My kingdom does not belong to this world. John 18:36

Unhappiness on earth cultivates a hunger for heaven. By gracing us with a deep dissatisfaction, God holds our attention. The only tragedy then, is to be satisfied prematurely. To settle for earth. To be content in this strange land...

We are not happy here because we are not at home here. We are not happy here because we are not supposed to be happy here. We are "like foreigners and strangers in this world" (1 Pet. 2:11)....

And you will never be completely happy on earth simply because you were not made for earth. Oh, you will have your moments of joy. You will catch glimpses of light. You will know moments or even days of peace. But they simply do not compare with the happiness that lies ahead.

-Max Lucado

I was disturbed by that dream because Chris seemed so unhappy being with us yet I was glad to know that he came from Heaven. As you can ascertain from the devotional above, Chris was not happy here because he had already been to Heaven and seen what true happiness is. Our God works in such mysterious ways. I think it was no coincidence that this devotional was for the morning of January 10, the morning after my dream. After reading that, I no longer felt disturbed by that dream. I just realized that Chris has arrived at our real home and knows a happiness that none of us on earth have yet to experience.

Father Charles' Homily

I wanted to re-cap what Father Charles said so eloquently about Chris during his homily. It's not a direct quote...just what I can remember from that day.

Father Charles told a story about Chris from when Father Charles, Chris and several others went hiking on the Appalachain Trail for a day or two. He said Chris would be hiking with the group and then pass them and be the first to see the beautiful scenery along the trail. Father Charles said he knew Chris had reached a great view by look of awe and amazement on his face.

Chris is ahead of us with our Heavenly Father seeing beautiful scenery that none of us have evern seen before. I look forward to the day when I may be able to enjoy that beautiful scenery with him.

The Highwayman

Below is a link to a live performance of one of Chris' favorite songs "The Highwayman" by the Highwaymen. Greg read some of the lyrics in his eulogy. Enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uw1bHaUk1CM

New Beginnings

Below is a sermon by Father Thack Dyson about new beginnings. Father Thack was the priest at St. Marks before moving to St. Paul's in Daphne.

http://www.stpaulseasternshore.org/LinkClick.aspx?fileticket=Yc08myT%2bJWw%3d&tabid=154&mid=719

While my family and all of us who knew and loved Chris are still grieving and will be for months, this sermon sends a message that after we have grieved, we will all start new chapters in our lives. Here is an excerpt:

"As believers of the resurrection, we perceive the conclusions of their last earthly chapters of life as only the beginning of a new chapter for both of them---an endless chapter with God. But their deaths are more than that. They also usher in the beginning of the new chapters in our lives without them. These kinds of beginnings can be very hard for many of us [...]The reality, however, is that everything, including life as we know it—both the good and the bad—will never be the same. From this day forward, for everyone, life will never be the same. And sometimes, some days, that knowledge can really hurt. But as people of faith, we also know that what hurts us, if we acknowledge it, can also heal us. If we can honestly face the painful endings of our lives and deal with them, we are thus liberated to embrace the new beginnings that follow."

Chris' Eulogy

Here is a copy of the eulogy which was given by Greg Spence, one of Chris' best friends. Greg was an amazing friend to Chris. He was right there with the rest of us into the wee hours at the hospital day in and day out. Thank you, Greg, for all that you did for Chris and our family.

Eulogy for Christopher Clarke Patterson:

Today, we’ve gathered together to cherish the many memories of Chris Patterson, a dear son, brother, nephew, cousin, and friend. Though the many paths we’ve taken with Chris by our side originate in different times and different places, they’ve finally converged here, in this single, blessed celebration of his life.

Chris was first led on these paths by his parents, Doug and Lisa, who instilled in him the hard-earned values of love, kindness, determination, and faith. Like twin pillars, they have supported him at every stage of his life: from his early days in Talladega and Troy, to his more recent times in Phenix City and Panama City. In his sisters, there are also reflections of Chris; in Lauren, his restless, adventurous spirit resides; in Natalie, his persistent drive for success.

My path with Chris began six years ago, when I first started teaching English at Chattahoochee Valley Community College. Within months, we’d become fast friends. We would spend countless hours catching up, chatting about everything under the sun. After gradually getting to know him better, I marveled at the range and depth of Chris’s interests. In the course of a single conversation, it wasn’t unusual for us to discuss:

Music: Chris loved music, especially acoustic guitar songs.

Movies: He had a special passion for disaster movies. If the movie involved zombies taking over a small town or a meteor plummeting to earth, you can bet that, on opening night, Chris would be sitting in the front row of the theater.

Television: Chris avidly watched episodes of Curb your Enthusiasm and loved The Office, in large part, because he was living it every day at C.V.C.C. He came across a whole cast of characters there.

Books: He would always pick up the latest Dan Brown thriller or spy novel. My own personal favorite was one entitled “Marketing to Women: How to Understand, Reach, and Increase Your Share of the World’s Largest Market Segment.” Apparently, Chris wasn’t only studying Economics while enrolled in Business classes at Troy.

Chris can be admired for so many reasons:

He was kind, even-tempered, gracious, and always modest.
He was calm in the midst of crisis, like the eye in the center of a hurricane.
But most of all, he was an extraordinary listener. When you were in Chris’ presence, a solemn hush would fall over the room: that was the sound of him listening to you.

Working with Ms. Cynthia Floyd in Student Services, Chris managed literally thousands of students and advisees who arrived at his door, which was always open. He registered them for classes, instructed them in Orientation courses, and guided them in student organizations. More importantly, he played an indispensible role in shaping and directing each student’s future.

All his life, Chris was a fighter. In the last few weeks, he fought harder than he ever had. His numbers were down, but with the help of his loved ones we rallied to his cause, stirred him with our words. We called him by many names: son, brother, nephew, cousin, friend, “Christopher,” “Chris,” “Christo,” “Bigfoot,” even “Rambo.” And as we called him, he listened to us, he responded to our call, and he climbed back to the top.

I know that Chris has ascended to heaven, where he is at peace with our Lord. That state of constant, peaceful calm was always in his nature, after all. He’s at home now. You can call on him any time there, and he will respond.

A little over a year ago, Chris sent me an email. In it was a brief message and a link to a live performance by a band that he loved. The brief message read: “don’t know if you’re into The Highwaymen. Here is one of their songs. One of my favorites.” Listen carefully to the songs’ lyrics and you’ll hear echoes of Chris’ voice:


I was a sailor. I was born upon the tide.

And with the sea I did abide.

I sailed a schooner round the Horn to Mexico.

I went aloft and furled the mainsail in a blow

And when the yards broke off they said that I got killed

But I am living still.


I was a dam builder across the river deep and wide

Where steal and water did collide.

A place called Boulder on the wild Colorado.

I slipped and fell into the wet concrete below

They buried me in that great tomb that knows no sound.

But I am still around…I’ll always be around…

and around and around and around and around.


I fly a starship across the Universe divide

And when I reach the other side

I’ll find a place to rest my spirit if I can

Perhaps I may simply be a single drop of rain

But I will remain.

And I’ll be back again and again and again and again.

Address for Memorials

Donations to The Chris Patterson Student Services Support Fund may be sent to the following address:

Chattahoochee Valley Community College
c/o The Chris Patterson Student Services Support Fund
2602 College Dr.
Phenix City, AL 36869

Thank you.

Directions to Green Hills Funeral Home in Troy, AL and Elmwood Cemetery in Birmingham, AL

The address to Green Hills Funeral Home where the visitation and funeral will be held is:

1621 South US Hwy 29
Troy, Alabama 36079

For a map, please visit their website at:
http://www.greenhillsfuneralhome.net/?page_id=22

Here are directions from Green Hills Funeral Home in Troy to Elmwood Cemetery in Birmingham where the burial will take place:

1. Take a right out of the funeral home
2. take exit for 231 North
3. Turn right on Taylor Rd in Montgomery
4. Merge onto I-85 S via the ramp to Downtown
5. Take exit 172 to merge onto I-65 N toward Birmingham
6. Take exit 258 for Greenspring Ave
7.Turn left at Green Springs Ave S
8.Turn right at Martin Luther King Jr Drive
9. Elmwood cemetery will be on your left

Memorials

In lieu of flowers, we are asking for donations to a special student services support fund in Chris' memory at Chattahoochee Valley Community College where Chris served as an advisor and counselor to all who needed his attentive ear.

Donations can be sent to the following address:

Chattahoochee Valley Community College
c/o The Chris Patterson Student Services Support Fund
2602 College Dr.
Phenix City, AL 36869

Visitation and Funeral Dates and Times

Chris' visitation will be at Green Hills Funeral Home on Monday starting at 5:00pm and will last until about 7pm or later depending. The funeral will also be held at Green Hills Funeral Home on Tuesday. It begins at 10:00am. After the funeral, we will be driving straight to Elmwood Cemetery in Birmingham where Chris will be laid to rest next to his Grandmother and Grandfather.

Chris' Lambda Chi Alpha brothers will be honorary pall bearers.

Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

Heaven has a new angel

Christopher Clarke Patterson went to be with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He was a beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin and friend and will be sorely missed. God must have an awfully important job for him in Heaven.

Thank you all for your love, support and prayers. We are blessed to have all of you in our lives.

May you rest in peace, Christopher.

In Need of Many Prayers

Chris has been really struggling today. They are having a hard time keeping his oxygen levels up. He was not doing well with the pressure from oscilator and his stats were not improving so they switched him back to the old ventilator and his oxygen level is at about 50-52%. The nurse said she hopes that he will steadily climb but she cannot guarantte anything. Please pray that his stats steadily climb and the he does better on the old ventilator.

PRAISE GOD FROM WHOM ALL BLESSINGS FLOW 3:00pm

The intensivit doctor (who is really sharp) gave us a daily update with some tough news. He said he was waiting on the radiologist to come look and see whether Chris' blood clots in his legs had improved or not. Chris' oxygen levels have been really low today. The intensivist was thinking because his blood oxygen levels were low there had to be something else going on for his oxygen levels to be so low because all of his other x-rays and information looked like he shouldn't be this ill. So, if the blood clots were worse, my parents would have had to make the decision whether to move him in his delicate state to get a cat scan to see if there was a clot in his lung. The doctor said just moving him would be a major risk because several things could go wrong. Then, it would be risk giving him the dye to do the cat scan because the effect it might have on his kidneys. And if there was a blood clot in his lungs they would have to give him thrombolitic, which is very very risky in itself because he has bled internally in his lungs before.

So after the intensivist left we were waiting on the xray reading by the radiologist as to whether his blood clots had improved. Thanks to yet another miracle by God, they had improved!! So, they will not have to move him. However, the doctor said that means that there is something else other than the clots that is causing his oxygen numbers to be low. He said it could be the bacterial infection in his sputum that is making his numbers so low. So please pray that the infection goes away and that whatever may be causing his oxygen levels to be so low to go away, too.

Nov. 27 @ 2:30

Chris' oxygen levels are floating around in the 60s and 70s. They were in the mid-80s for most of the night, but this morning after they were cleanin his trach his oxygen levels dropped. The nurse said they would go back up so hopefully they will. His lungs are still very inflammed and they found a new bacterial infection in his sputum. Please pray that the bacterial infection goes away, that his blood oxygen goes back up and that his lungs begin to heal.

Chris is in a very delicate place. He has so much to fight against. He has fought so hard for so long and I know he can keep going. Please pray that God sees him through this.

Thanksgiving Update II

Around 8:30 tonight we checked on Chris and his blood oxygen level was around 80. The nurse said that was because the respiratory therapist had just been in to do a few things and the nurse said the oxygen level should go back up soon. I checked on him again around 10 and his oxygen level was still in the low 80s. She said they were working on getting it to above 85. Please pray that Chris' oxygen levels get above 85 and stay there for the rest of the night.

Thanksgiving Day Update

On this Thanksgiving day, my family has so much to be thankful for. First and foremost we are thankful for an awesome and loving God that has continuously wrapped Chris and our family in his loving arms. We are so very thankful for a son, brother, nephew, cousin and friend who continues to fight minute by minute so that next Thanksgiving he will be around our family table enjoying a heaping pile of stuffing and turkey. And, we are thankful for all of our family and friends. Our family has truly been shown the real meaning of love and friendship, and we will never be able to adequately express to all of you how much your support has meant to us. We couldn't have made it this far without all of you.

Chris had a really great night last night. Throughout the night he steadily maintaied a blood oxygen level from 97-98 and all of his other vitals were good, too. Today, the doctor said his lungs looked the same as yesterday (but yesterday the doctor said they were looking better so that is good that there was no change). The doctors are no longer concerned as much about his pancrease or kidneys. The doctor continues to be concerned about the blood clotting. Please pray that the doctors can find that delicate balance with the heprin to help combat the clots.

The doctors have also started to lower the amount of oxygen that the oscilator is pumping. They brought it down to 95%. Please pray that Chris can adjust as the reduce the amount of oxygen.

Chris is still hanging in there! He is being so strong! They have slightly elevated him and eventually want to elevate him to 30% so that they can put in a feeding tube again.

The doctors are still concerned about the clotting and he remains on the heprin. His oxygen levels are pretty much the same--floating around in the high 80s.

Please pray that he remains stable for the night! We finally convinced mom and dad to go home for a full night's sleep. Lauren, my aunt, uncle, cousins and me are keeping watch during the night. Please pray that my parents actually get a good night's sleep.

I apologize for just now updating. My mom and I arrived at the hospital recently for our shift.

Chris is still hanging on. He is such a fighter!! The doctor said that his pneumonia is looking better so that is good news. However, the blood clots still present a major problem. The doctors and nurses are doing their best to keep the blood clots in check and to maintain the delicate balance with the heprin. When my mom and I left at 5am his blood oxygen level was at 80. It had hit as high as 98 while I was visiting with him. This morning his blood oxygen levels have been around 76. I will update again soon after my parents have gotten another report from the doctors.


This morning one of my dad's friends called to let us know about an article in USA Today. Here is the link:

http://content.usatoday.com/topics/post/Letter+to+the+editor/620002787.blog/1

What an inspiration this story is to our family! We are praying that like the guy in the article above, Chris, too, will pull through this.